The book "Safe People - How To Find Relationships That Are Good For You And Avoid Those That Aren’t" by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend is a definite must-read. In it, the authors illustrate means of developing relationships that encourage and foster spiritual and interpersonal growth. There are parts that define "safe" people and safe relationships and parts that define "unsafe" relationships. You will likely find yourself in one of the character categories listed as Drs. Cloud and Townsend are skilled at the art of enumeration. In fact, one of the most redeeming qualities of the book is the way in which it is structured, using plenty of examples and classifications for each character type.

The book is insightful in teaching everyday people how to develop, maintain and enjoy safe relationships. It uses biblical language throughout, referring often to scripture to validate theory. The two doctors who wrote the book use non-threatening terminology and analogies that instruct and define what it means to be a safe individual.

Some parts of the book are humorous and some are eerily familiar. You’ll find yourself transformed after reading it. "Safe People" set in my heart a desire to do better in my relationships and drove home the point that, as a friend of mine says, "People need people."

The authors of "Safe People" are both licensed psychologists and qualified speakers. From the back cover of the book:

Both graduated with doctorates from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology, and both maintain private practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including "The Mom Factor," "Twelve ’Christian’ Beliefs That Can Drive You Crazy," and the Gold Medallion Award-winning "Boundaries."